Helping Your Child Have a Great Start to the New School Year in the US –
For families that have recently moved to the U.S., the start of a new school year can bring a lot of questions. The school system, classroom culture, and even daily routines may feel quite different from what both kids and parents experienced in their home country.
Every parent, wants to help their kids get off to a great start—one that sets them on a path to success. Below are six practical tips to give your child a strong beginning to the new school year.
1. Understand the American Classroom and School Schedule
Elementary classrooms in the U.S. often emphasize interaction, group work, and hands-on learning. Your child may be encouraged to ask questions, share opinions, and work in teams—sometimes even moving around the classroom for activities. This may feel different if your child comes from a system where students usually sit quietly and listen to the teacher.
The daily schedule may also be different from your past experiences. In addition to math, reading, and writing, American elementary students usually have “specials” such as art, music, physical education, or library once or twice a week. For elementary students, “recess,” which is a time for outdoor play, is also a regular part of the school day. These periods give children a chance to relax, recharge, and make friends.
If your child is starting a new school year in the US for the first time, it’s natural to have questions about what will happen. Hopefully, the school will provide email and other communication forms to help you know what to expect. However, in my experience as a parent, it’s often necessary to do some reading on the school or school district website to find all the answers you’re looking for. Don’t hesitate to reach out to the school office by email if you can’t find the answers you need about the school schedule or classroom activities.
2. Learn About ESOL Support Services
Many U.S. public schools offer ESOL (English for Speakers of Other Languages) programs. These programs provide extra support for students who are still learning English. Depending on your child’s level, they may spend part of the day working with an ESOL teacher in small groups or receiving extra help within the regular classroom.
It’s a good idea to ask your child’s teacher or the school office how ESOL support services work at your school. Some schools also provide additional resources such as bilingual staff, translated newsletters, or after-school tutoring. Taking advantage of ESOL support will help your child gain confidence and improve their English faster.
If you are not confident in English yourself, there are still many ways to stay informed and involved:
- Ask for an interpreter when meeting with teachers or school staff. Schools are required to provide language support for parents, often free of charge.
- Request written information in your home language. Many schools can send newsletters or important notices in multiple languages.
- Connect with bilingual staff or parent liaisons. Some schools have staff members who can explain policies and expectations clearly.
- Use technology wisely. Free translation tools and apps (such as Google Translate) can help you understand school emails, homework instructions, and classroom announcements.
- Reach out to other families. Other parents—especially those who share your language—can often explain how things work at school and give advice about common challenges.
By showing interest and staying involved, even in small ways, you send your child a powerful message: school is important, and learning together as a family is possible.
3. Support Friendships and Social Connections
One of the hardest parts of moving to a new country can be making new friends. Start by asking your kids questions: What do they like to do during recess? Who do they talk to? What games do they like to play? This will help give you a picture of their social relationships.
You might also encourage your child to participate in school clubs, sports teams, or after-school programs. Even something as simple as attending a school-sponsored picnic or family night can give your child opportunities to connect with classmates outside the classroom.
You can also help by arranging playdates with other children in the class. Some parents are shy about reaching out, but most American families are friendly and open to meeting new families. If language is a barrier, start with short, simple invitations like “Would you like to come play at the park this Saturday?” These small steps can lead to meaningful friendships.
4. Be Involved in Parent-Teacher Meetings
At the beginning of a new school year in the US, most schools hold gatherings called a curriculum night. This is when teachers explain what your child will be learning, classroom routines, and homework expectations. Attending a curriculum night is a great opportunity to understand what lies ahead and to ask questions about anything unclear.
Later in the year, you will also be invited to a parent-teacher conference. These are usually short, 15–20 minute meetings where the teacher shares your child’s academic progress and social adjustment. During the conference, don’t be afraid to ask about your child’s English development, how they participate in class, or ways you can help at home. If you feel more comfortable with some support, schools will provide options to request an interpreter so you can fully understand and participate in the conversation. You should be able to find this information on the school’s website or in email communication from your child’s teacher.
5. Know What to Expect with Homework
In American elementary schools, homework is usually lighter than in many other countries. Younger children (grades 1–3) may have about 10–20 minutes a night, often focusing on reading and practicing basic math facts. Older elementary students (grades 4–5) may have 30–45 minutes.
Teachers typically encourage parents to read with their children in English every day. Even if you are not confident in your own English, you can support your child by creating a quiet study space, showing interest in their assignments, and praising their efforts. Remember that the goal is not just to get the “right answers” but to build good study habits and confidence.
6. Balance Schoolwork and Relaxation
Adjusting to a new school and language can be exhausting for children. While parents may feel a need to help their child progress academically as quickly as possible, it’s important to balance their school responsibilities with time to relax and enjoy life at home. After-school downtime could include outdoor play, drawing, music, or simply resting.
Many families find it helpful to set a predictable routine: snack and playtime after school, then homework, then dinner and family time. Consistent schedules help children feel secure, especially when so many other aspects of their lives are new and uncertain.
At the same time, it’s good to encourage activities outside the home that build both physical health and social connections—such as sports, dance, or community events. These help children feel a sense of belonging, which is just as important as academic success. For a list of local sport groups for kids in your area, you can check out the i9 Sports website.
Starting school in a new country is a big step for children, but with the right support, they can adapt quickly and thrive. By learning about ESOL resources, understanding the American classroom culture, encouraging friendships, participating in school events such as curriculum night, and maintaining a healthy balance, you are setting your child up for success.
Remember: teachers and school staff want your child to succeed and are usually very open to working with families. Don’t hesitate to ask questions, share your concerns, and celebrate your child’s progress. With patience and encouragement, this school year can be the beginning of a joyful and successful educational journey in the U.S.
Thanks for spending some time with these ways to help your child have a fantastic start to the new school year in the US. Feel free to comment below with examples or more questions.
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